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Let’s talk, and I mean really talk about addiction. Not just the clinical responses that you may find in formal reports or white papers. Let’s tackle the issues that the general public has with drugs and the people that use them.

Most of us have seen posts scrolling through our social media that bash addicts, calling them “weak” and “useless,” accusing them of continuing to use drugs because they know that the government will keep paying for treatment or keep pumping them full of Narcan every time they overdose.

It seems like a digital lynch mob is ready and waiting to tear someone apart when they get arrested or end up doing another stint in rehab. There’s so much hate and judgment, that it’s no wonder that so many addicts try to stay hidden for as long as possible. In reality,

the public’s

attitude is part of the problem.

That’s right; the hyper-vigilant finger pointing is creating a culture of people who are unable to recover and to reenter society without the permanent stigma of addiction hanging over their heads. The only way to change this is to talk about our fears and to use logic to stamp out those pervasive misconceptions—one at a time.

 Why Are Virginians So Angry About Addiction?

It seems like nearly everyone living in the state of Virginia has been touched by the opioid epidemic. The overdose rate is high, communities are grieving, and they need to feel angry. Loss is an angry desolate emotion, and when it’s not directed in a way that’s healthy—it’s also a destructive one.

With nowhere to direct their anger, residents are turning on those who are still dealing and using drugs within the state. From Norfolk to Richmond, there’s a desperate need to learn more about the reality behind drug use and dependence.

The only way to fight the problem is to understand and acknowledge it for what it truly is—a disease that has the potential to devastate entire families and cities one person at a time.

You May Have Heard or Repeated These Addiction Myths

If you’re one of the people who has claimed one of the opinions below, then you need to read this. You need to be open to change and be able to understand that some of our current views aren’t helping to make any progress. We’re all on the same side. We all want the same thing, an end to addiction and to those vague obituaries that herald another life lost to drugs.

Popular opinions aren’t automatically true and understanding this puts us one step closer to recovering on a national level.

“Addiction is a Choice, Not a Disease!”

This statement contradicts decades of scientific research that defines addiction as a disease. In fact, the National Institute on Drug Abuse defines addiction as, “a chronic, relapsing brain disease that is characterized by compulsive drug seeking and use, despite harmful consequences.”

Related story: Addiction is a Chronic Brain Disease, Not a Character Flaw

The symptoms of addiction aren’t just seen in terms of the psychological, they are also displayed in actual organic changes and differences that are present only in the brains of addicts. This isn’t something that can be changed with traditional medicine and requires treatment at both the psychological and physical levels.

The “choice” to use drugs is hugely debated. In truth, most of us will use at least one substance at some point in our lives. Maybe you had an injury and were prescribed painkillers, maybe you had anxiety and were given benzos, or maybe someone just offered you a drink or a pill at a party and you thought, “Why not?”

Taking drugs or drinking isn’t always done with nefarious or criminal intentions. A lot of addicts get their start with legitimate prescriptions. They didn’t go out on the street and make shady drug deals or rob a pharmacy, they just trusted their doctor and couldn’t stop using when the pills ran out.

We also have a tendency to forget the most innocent addicts—the kids born addicted because their mothers used during the pregnancy. Some of these children will fight a lifelong battle with substance abuse because they were high before they had a choice.

No one wants to be addicted to drugs and alcohol. Even those who try drugs for recreation aren’t choosing to be an addict. If they knew what would happen after that first time, many wouldn’t have tried them in the first place.

“Addicts Can Stop Using Whenever They Want”

The brains of addicts don’t function the same as everyone else. Most of us don’t have the same level of chemical response to drug use as those who are predisposed to addiction. They experience a euphoria or an emotional relief that their brain quickly hardwires in as a reward response. They instinctively crave more and eventually develop a tolerance.

Trying to stop drinking or using illicit drugs suddenly can result in serious withdrawal symptoms. For some, these can be life-threatening. There’s also the chance that their brains will never return to their natural chemical balance, making “just stopping” that much harder. Most addicts will try to quit using several times, and eventually, will need professional help to stay sober.

“People Who Use Drugs Don’t Care About Anyone Else”

This is a statement that has a grain of truth to it, but only after the addiction has developed into a full-blown problem. Addicts aren’t trying to hurt anyone with their initial drug use, and as they become more and more dependent on the drugs, they isolate themselves. Part of this is due to shame and part of it is due to a chemical shift in their priorities. After receiving help, many are able to reform meaningful relationships.

“Methadone is Free to Addicts on the Taxpayer’s Dime!”

Addicts who qualify for medication-assisted treatment programs and who are capable of making more money than the minimum poverty level are actually required to pay for their treatment and maintenance medications—just like anyone else. These programs can cost hundreds of dollars a month and must be closely monitored for compliance. It’s not the “free pill mill” that some people accuse it of being.

10 COMMENTS

  1. This is perfect! Thank you for a much needed insight into one of America’s biggest problems. People need to wake up and see that addiction is NOT a choice. Thank you for writing this. I hope more of those that dont understand or think its a ‘choice’ will open their minds!

  2. this article is spot on. Its time for everyone to wake up and smell the coffee. Addiction is a DISEASE not a weakness. And it can and does affect everyone from all walks of life. We need to embrace any potential treatment including medicines that help people get their lives back. I’m amazed at the lack of ignorance that exists regarding addiction and the potential role FDA approved medications can play in helping people. Medicines in and of themselves are not the silver bullet but they often allow the person to abstain long enough to tackle the underlying reasons for their abuse. Enlightened health care professionals recognize the value of a muti-faceted approach to treating addiction and embrace it. Others in the treatment field are often more motivated by financial gain associated with expensive inpatient treatment stays and don’t want to embrace a medication that could in fact prevent frequent flyers from relapsing and returning for multiple stays. To be clear many such treatment facilities are not financially motivated, embrace MAT and have the patients best interest at heart but there are plenty who don’t. It’s time to treat not only addiction but mental illness in general with the respect and resources it deserves. Lives are at stake. Perhaps yours or mine or those we care about.

  3. Dis- ease. Check the derivation— . Mental and physical dis-ease. Either you are emperor not. Maybe to the non empathetic— it’s about tax dollars.

  4. Why cant it be both a disease and a choice? As a recovering addict myself (4.5 years clean and sober, thank god!) I see merit to both sides of the argument. Trust me when I say that I didnt choose to lose my family, my career, my wife, and eventually my freedom, and several times, I nearly lost my life. Who on in their right mind would choose that? Notice my choice of words, “right mind”…

    I know full well most people aren’t going to agree, or suddenly change their mind, and thats ok, everyone is entitled ti their own opinion. I just wanted to add the voice of someone who has been their to the conversation. And maybe someone reading this will realize that they can do it too!

  5. Addiction is not a choice but the person can choose to not use.

    I have been sober 15 years and trust me, there are not many of us. Those who get long term sobriety realize the addiction is part of whom they are and take full responsibility for their actions. They don’t blame the addiction, they blame themselves.

    Addicts can stop using whenever they want but they choose not to. I chose not to because it was the only way I could feel like not dying. I actively chose to keep using because I felt awful or just didn’t care. It’s not like the addict is oblivious to the damage they are causing. They often keep using to forget about the damage they have caused.

    Addiction is a strong disease and the only way I could overcome it was to accept it, embrace it and realize it was part of who I was.

  6. Addiction IS NOT A DISEASE

    The Wisdom of Man (aka Science) may try and tell us all kinds of things, but that doesn’t mean there is truth in any of it.

    The Bible says:

    1 Corinthians 3:19

    For the Wisdom of This World is foolishness to God…

  7. So methadone is only free to the common severely addicted narcotic pill popper who doesn’t have a job or does not have a “decent” job. Which when they test positive as an addict on narcotics without a prescription they often get fired from better jobs. Thier are exceptions as thier are in every group. A large percentage qualify, maybe not a majority, or maybe It is, but a large percentage. And it is a choice. It may be a choice that takes will power but it still is a choice. Many people have addictions, maybe not illegal, and maybe not harmful at first but they are addictions none the less and sometimes they must be stopped and the person stops. I used to be addicted to caffeine, I would drink it all the time, cup after cup after cup. Any type off coffee, from black no sugar to McDonald’s Carmel frappe. I got sick (completely unrelated illness) but during and after I became intolerant. Any more than 30mg caffine (1/3 cup coffee) a day would throw me into an irregular heart rhythm, my blood pressure would drop. I would have to lay down for number of hours until left system. I used to drink, usually 2-3 shots each night before bed. I had to quit rather suddenly, got put on medication that interacted with alcohol. I miss caffeine a lot, I think about it a lot how good a carmel frappe from mcdonalds would be, but I can’t have it, I know I can’t, I could have a little bit, but I know if I have a little bit I will want the whole thing. I can have 1/3 of a small, I’d rather have 2 larges. I miss having a shot before bed some, mostly miss the caffeine. I miss them, but I had no trouble giving these things up, I have always had strong will. 21% of woman, 12% of men experience depression. Only thing different between them and those locked up on suicide watch is thier will to live. I’ve met some who were instiutionalized do to risk of harm to self, connected with one. Was the only difference, he still wanted help though. Human body is fragile, if takes more than one attempt I think person is trying to get help still. I had will and was able to become whatever I wanted and did so, but his doctor diagnosed him with grandiose illusions for wanting to work in a nice restaurant (his idol owned a chain of nice restaurants), stated would take any role to earn a foot in the door, Busboy, dishwasher. But this was grandiose or “unrealistic sense of superiority, a sustained view of oneself as better than others that causes the narcissist to view others with disdain or as inferior, as well as to a sense of uniqueness”.

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